stump the sex educator: lots and lots of pre-cum, with male anorgasmia

I got this question in my email, and since I don’t know the answer – I have a couple of hypotheses, but nothing approaching certainty – I asked for and received permission to share the question with you lovely readers. If you have an idea what the answer might be, would you put it in the comments? If you know someone who might have an idea, would you forward it to them? Please share widely!

I am a 51 year old woman, with a 52 year old boyfriend who is anorgasmic. He totally loves sex, he is a fantastic, attentive partner. he is up to try anything for fun and pleasure. But the man can’t come unless he masturbates. He has been like this his whole life, with every partner he has ever had. (He’s had lots.) He doesn’t worry about it–he just enjoys the sex. But today we had a very strange experience which we can’t figure out. I was giving him oral sex, and he was loving it–and suddenly some liquid filled my mouth. He said, “I don’t know what you’re doing but it is fantastic!” I continued on for a little bit until I thought it was done, and I said “You came!” He said he didn’t—he knows something came out, but he said it didn’t come from his balls and it wasn’t come. I had to agree that it didn’t taste like come either. I did this move on him 3 times today, and he responded in the same way every time! SOMETHING was coming out, and it was filling my mouth. But neither one of us knows what it is. He felt great, but he said he didn’t come. Was it pre-ejaculate fluid? I read that men can’t tell when that was coming out, and my boyfriend could feel that something was happening. I have never heard of this, and I’m very curious.

 

What do you think?

I think it might ejaculation with orgasm, maybe? But that doesn’t explain the sensation that it wasn’t coming from his balls. Maybe it was just lots and lots of precum?

Let me know your thoughts!